Flirt freely. Play fair.

Be real

• You must be 18 or over.
• Use photos and Flashes of yourself, taken recently.
• One account per person. No impersonating anyone else.

Be respectful

• Consent comes first, online and in person. No means no, and silence is not a yes.
• No harassment, threats, stalking or pressuring anyone to meet or share images.
• No hate speech or discrimination based on race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability or anything else.
• Never share someone's messages, photos or personal details without their permission.

Keep Flashes and photos tasteful

• Confident is great. Nudity and sexually explicit content are not allowed on profiles or Flashes.
• Only send intimate content in a Private Room when the other person has clearly asked for it. Unsolicited explicit images will get you banned.
• No content showing or involving anyone under 18, ever. We report this to authorities.

Keep it personal, not commercial

• No selling, advertising or promoting anything.
• No offering or asking for money, gifts or anything of value in exchange for dates, companionship or sex.
• No scams, romance fraud or requests for money, bank details, gift cards or crypto.

Keep it legal

• Nothing illegal, including threats, drugs, weapons or sharing intimate images without consent.

What happens if someone breaks the rules

Depending on how serious it is, we may remove content, warn the member, restrict their account or ban them permanently. Serious breaches, including anything involving minors, threats or sexual misconduct, lead to a permanent ban and may be reported to police. We take steps to stop banned members creating new accounts.

See something? Here's how to report it.